sex positive – This Magazine https://this.org Progressive politics, ideas & culture Mon, 23 Mar 2015 17:59:11 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.4 https://this.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/cropped-Screen-Shot-2017-08-31-at-12.28.11-PM-32x32.png sex positive – This Magazine https://this.org 32 32 Go your own way https://this.org/2015/03/23/go-your-own-way/ Mon, 23 Mar 2015 17:59:11 +0000 http://this.org/magazine/?p=3980 Photo by Norman Wong

Photo by Norman Wong

Lowell’s bold, new vision for a women- and girl-friendly pop future

POP SINGER-SONGWRITER Lowell has recently been experiencing a recurring dream in which she’s robbing a bank, then driving away on a motorbike with her lesbian lover. Given the surreal imagery in the videos for her songs “The Bells” and “Cloud 69,” it’s easy to imagine visuals from her dream appearing in a future musical performance.

Since the September 2014 release of her album We Loved Her Dearly (released on Toronto indie label Arts & Crafts Productions, which also put out her 2014 five-song EP, I Killed Sara V.), Lowell (born Elizabeth Lowell Boland) has been in a state that she describes as both euphoric and cinematic, which is driving the creation of her new songs. “I can do anything,” she says.

At only 21 years old, the Calgary native was invited to London by a producer impressed by her demo tape. While there, she wrote songs for both herself and for pop groups like the Backstreet Boys—she received a co-writing credit for the bonus track “Take Care” on the band’s 2013 album In a World Like This. As a woman, Lowell knew she would have to work harder at getting through the door, and fought to make sure her ideas weren’t shut down. The struggle only ignited her competitive nature. While she describes herself as a control freak, she is certainly not ashamed— this kind of forceful attitude has gotten her this far.

Now, at 23, she is back in Canada, living in Toronto, and is in a position where she can choose who she works with. In a male-dominated industry, Lowell knows that it is expected for a female artist to walk in the room and have less interest, or less talent, to write songs. That said, she believes that while the bar has been set higher for women in music, more female pop artists are now propping each other up as opposed to being pitted against each other.

What sets Lowell apart is that her songs are all written with women in mind, touching on topics such as gender equality, abuse, and abortion. “There’s something more satisfying in writing to a girl,” she says. She is not inhibited when it comes to sex, or writing about it, but doesn’t do it to push the envelope: she’s just being honest. “We’re not in the 1800s, where women have to blush and guys can be dogs,” she says, admitting that people don’t always know how to receive a woman who talks openly about sex, and that others can mistake this for flirting. “Everyone I meet thinks I want to have sex with them,” she laughs. One day, she hopes, it will be commonplace in music for girls to write to girls and boys to write to boys, and it won’t be seen as so taboo.

Until then, we have Lowell writing about not worrying about the world around you, like in her song “I Love You Money,” or about sexual fantasies in “Cloud 69,” where she sings, “Oh my god, I think I need a girlfriend.”

“I like to have a purpose with my music,” Lowell says. “But sometimes I like to just write a stupid song.”

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Our March/April Feminist Issue is Now on Newsstands! https://this.org/2015/03/04/our-marchapril-feminist-issue-is-now-on-newsstands/ Wed, 04 Mar 2015 18:40:52 +0000 http://this.org/magazine/?p=3935 15thisMA_coverOur March/April issue is now on newsstands, and we’re super excited. Check out the editor’s note from Lauren McKeon, where she shares our motivations for publishing the issue, and also what you can expect to see inside its pages and online at this.org!

I cannot remember a time when I didn’t identify as a feminist. From the moment I first heard it, the word feminist fit me like the perfect pair of jeans. I learned it as if by osmosis, the way geese know to migrate south for the winter or dogs to bark at strangers. I know many people who feel the same way I do, and many who don’t. Some days, lately, I’m not sure which side has the higher tally.

Feminism has taken over our national conversation and the results are both encouraging and discouraging. As feminists get more ink and airtime, so too do anti-feminists—our current clickbait-centred media culture ensures it. We debate merits and viewpoints, all the while obscuring this pervasive attitude that women’s life experiences aren’t worth being taken at face value. It’s not enough to simply testify these things are happening to us, to say we are oppressed, abused, and disadvantaged: we must prove it. Again and again and again.

Well, f*@k that. Here at This Magazine, we believe Canada needs more feminism—now. In this issue, we also give a big f*@k that to the popular culture that fostered Jian Ghomeshi, Bill Cosby, and the boys at Dalhousie’s Dentistry school; the one that cultivated mansplaining, manspreading, and street harassment; and the one that encourages apathy toward threats to abortion access, the pay gap, and our country’s Indigenous murdered and missing women.

But it’s not all raised fists: We also explore what we need from feminism now, and ask the tough questions: Is feminism too middle-class and white? (Answer: Yes. “The trouble with (white) feminism” by Hana Shafi) Where do men fit into the movement? (“Allied forces” by Hillary Di Menna) Does hashtag activism work for feminism? (“#Feminism” by Stephanie Taylor) And more.

While we can’t cover all the myriad ways in which we need more feminism, we hope this issue can add to our great Canadian feminist conversation, as well as spark a few new conversations. Because now, perhaps more than ever, we need to examine the current state of—and need for—feminism. We need to look at what we can do better. So, please, pick up up a copy of This and stay tuned to this.org and, where you can join us in saying, “F*@k that.”

Can’t find This on newsstands? Contact publisher Lisa Whittington-Hill at publisher@thismagazine.ca

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